I'll take option #2. I am not speaking for anyone but myself. Please don't take anything I say as "it's coming from TDR" unless it is on a TDR website or account. That would be like me saying all your beliefs and everything you say are that of the school district in which you work. I give advice, like anyone else, based off my experiences and knowledge. I will be the first to tell you I don't know everything about Miatas but I do know a lot. Very few things in this world are black and white beside penguins and pandas. No one claim suits every application as you stated with the apples and watermelons comment. Still, the fact that there is controversy should give anyone pause to consider header wrap as a solution. In comparison, ceramic coating and even the TDR heat shield have nothing but positive comments from everything I've heard. If people understand and accept the risks of using header wrap well then bully to them.
BTW, I am also not trying to push product on here. I get no commission. If I suggest something to anyone, it's because I believe it may help them. No ulterior motives on anything I tell people regarding their Miatas or anything else.
Just wanted to clarify that.