
Originally Posted by
SixAce
Couple of options here. I've been in both positions (applying/hiring) lots of times):
These are the points you should consider (I'm sure you have). Do you really, really want the job? Does it offer more "possibility" or likelyhood of greater advancement (and higher compensation) than your current position? Do you see some potential with the new firm that does not exist with your current?
What makes you want to leave your current position? Pay?, stress?, environment?, workload? scheduling? Obviously, with their first offer, pay is a concern, but what about other factors? There is more to work than just compensation. Freedom, happiness, flexibility, blah, blah, blah.
Compare benefits, 401, leave, medical/vision/disability, etc Compare the whole package.
If you still want the job, take the lowball offer (one step back for potentially two steps forward).
Or, sincerely thank them for their time and offer, and explain that your compensation understandings of the position were incorrect, and even though you both agree that you are the best candidate, hence the offer, you will be unable to accept their offer. If, at that point, they ask you what your understanding was, be honest and upfront. If it was a range, state the range and where you expected to fall into the range considering your experience and skillset.
Or, explain the above, and suggest that they start you at their offer, and incerase you to what you have in mind after a successfull probationary peroid or say, 90 days.
I would not recommend saying anything along the lines of "I had $xxx,xxx.xx in mind". i may turn them off completely, or you could lowball yourself.
Pay is good. But not everything. If I recall correctly, in the list of top ten reasons people leave their jobs, pay falls in around 6th or 7th. (strangley, working for me seems to be number 1, but I digress...)
I have no idea what you do, or what your goals are. Only you do. You might have a minimum of 3-5- and 10 year goals. Changing jobs can be a healthy process. Changing careers is harder, but oftentimes even more healthier. Love your work and you cannot fail. And vice-versa.
Hope this does not come off as preachy, cause it's not. Delveloping coaching and helping people on our staff grow and advance is part of my job, and a big part of why I love my job.
Best of luck. Hope you get what you need. Just remember, everything happens for a reason, and when one door closes, another one always opens.
SA