Welcome. I think you'll find the Miata a lot more fun to drive than the Honda.
Consider 15x8 wheels with 225mm tires. You don't need any more on a Miata unless you're adding forced induction.
A large front sway bar is almost a requirement. Stick with the stock rear bar. In fact, I rarely leave my stock rear bar connected for autocross and track days. Others might have different opinions on this.
The fender rolling will depend on how low you go with coilovers. Just get the tires and sway bar for now.
You might consider a rollbar.