Take my wife, PLEASE :!: :wink:
j/k, I wish you well, it's a big step. The misses and me been hitched for 17+ years. I do my stuff - She does hers, and occationally we do stuff together.
My advise for a long lasting marrage, total trust both ways, but don't abuse it. If you can't trust each other then somethings wrong. Give her space, and she will give you your space, as well, enjoy time together.