It was my wife, just like I thought. We told her to lump ours, and when she presented my bill I wasn't really thinking about everything she'd ordered. The waitress screwed everything up though. Usually, the waitstaff there at UFO is phenomenal; I know several of the waitresses and they give us great service (and are compensated well for it). These were all new faces... They'll get the hang of it. :)
The Bass Pro Shop has a restaurant where you can sit out back and overlook the lake as well, and a big bar with a gigantic salt water aquarium inside. That would also be a great place to meet, though they don't have nearly the beer selection.